People are waiting longer to get married. They see the distinct advantages of remaining footloose for a while, of having time to set up a solo household, of traveling and having adventures before they settle down, of getting established in a career. That means that when they marry, merging their two lives has greater complexity.Remarriage following divorce or death of a spouse is also more common as people live longer. And sobering as the fact may be, second marriages have a greater failure rate than first marriages.It's not surprising, then, that many couples thirty-five and older are looking for savvy advice about the particular issues they face in marrying at this stage of their lives. Kay Marshall Strom and Dan Kline have the wisdom of their own experience to offer. They found each other after first marriages that ended in death and divorce. Further help comes from their interviews with a wide range of couples who married for the first or second time, varying in age from their mid-thirties to their late-eighties.This book deals with the practical, emotional and spiritual elements of building a life together, taking up issues from what to do with all your stuff to parenting a blended family, from handling two careers to fighting fairly. In this "savvy couple's guide" you'll find wise counsel for living happily even after.
"What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility" (Tolstoy). Those of us who venture into matrimony later in life bring with us a particularly rich store of potential incompatibility. If nothing else, we've simply had more time to get stuck in our ways and habits of thinking. This book is a helpful series of reflections, from a married couple who's been there, on some of the unique challenges of blending two lives later in the game. The authors give us lots of practical and insightful advice, but the real value of the book is the intimate glimpses we're offered from the everyday lives of approximately 70 survey respondents: couples just like us, learning new routines for handling money, schedules, living spaces, multiple careers, blended families... A thoughtful wedding gift for the older couple who probably already has two of everything.
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