We work so hard to build our management and leadership skills in our careers, but we often feel like blithering idiots when faced with a child who won't cooperate, a husband who doesn't pay attention and a household that seems ready to collapse from the weight of our anxiety about chores. "Why can't I be as smart at home as I am at work?" I have often found myself wondering. These words--written by Carol Evans and excerpted from the Foreword of Mom-in-Chief --sum up why leadership expert Jamie Woolf wrote this book. They reflect the sentiments of countless professional women who feel great about our accomplishments in the workplace but not so great about how we run our homes. In this one-of-a-kind book, Woolf sets out to help readers bridge the gap between corner office and kitchen counter. Along the way she shares inspiring stories, practical strategies and interactive assessment tools to illustrate how the best workplace practices can bring more joy and success to family life. Drawing from two decades of experience, she lays out her "best practices" to improve your communication, create a healthy family culture, discover your parent leadership style, manage crises, thrive during adolescence, and juggle work and family priorities. Readers will explore common leadership dilemmas, including: When to step in and when to step back How to maximize the learning opportunities that come from mistakes How to stay connected with a pesky toddler or testy teenager How to create rituals that strengthen the family's esprit de corps When to push kids and when to let them quit How to feel less like a maid or short-order cook and more like a skilled leader capable of unleashing the potential of others. Mom-in-Chief addresses real quandaries and covers everything that smart career-oriented women need to know in order to fulfill their parenting potential and navigate challenges with skill and grace. This book is a welcome reminder that leading a family doesn't mean churning out living masterpieces, or indulging children with the perfect everything. It does mean inspiring without pushing your own agenda, nurturing without micromanaging, encouraging without aiming to win a best-of-show competition, and expecting the best without ignoring the joyful ordinariness of childhood.
I thoroughly enjoyed Mom in Chief - it was a great reminder to keep the big picture in mind around parenting goals. I was motivated to initiate a discussion with my kids about chores, and what's working/what's not. We created a new chore list and a new system that we're going to try for the next 3 weeks and then discuss and refine. My son said this morning that he liked the new system. And I certainly liked going to take a shower instead of hanging around, nagging them to get their lunch packed, and teeth brushed. I especially appreciated the author's willingness to own up to her own mistakes in the book. I think that's unusual in a guide-type book, where the author is always telling you what to do, and not really sharing their own shortcomings. It made me feel more motivated to take some chances myself.
Clear headed, no nonsense advice you can apply to your family
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 16 years ago
I found Woolf's book to be filled with easy to understand, and more importantly, easy to apply strategies to keep my household sane. Next time you want to pick up a frying pan or punch a hole in the fridge, pick this up instead. If I adhere to the strategies she outlines, I'm pretty sure my kids will turn into better, more useful adults too. Not bad for 25 bucks.
Good advice for every working woman
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 16 years ago
Jamie Woolf's book does a brilliant job of culling lessons from working life for use in family life, but you don't have to have a family to benefit from her advice. A fun and useful read, Mom-in-Chief provides a unique and long over-due perspective on the connections between work and family.
This is a GREAT parenting book!
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 16 years ago
I have read many parenting books before which haven't helped me at all but this one is different. It is well written, includes many illustrative stories, but most importantly, offers straightforward strategies that are easy to bring into my home. One point the author made, that we as parents need to keep in mind the bigger picture, our core values, what our bigger purpose/mission is and bring these into our discussions with our kids. This simple point has already helped diffuse a potential struggle with my daughter. Buy this one--its different than all the others!
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