In her years as a family therapist, Dr. Linda Mintle has counseled hundreds of daughters who were in difficult relationships with their mothers, and countless others who are carrying around emotional baggage because of mother/daughter conflict and tension. Despite our desire for perfect relationships -- which is what we instinctually want with our moms -- we fail them and they fail us. But we must work to achieve the best possible relationship with our mothers, because it affects every other relationship we have. Throughout this book, Dr. Mintle provides interactive ways for readers to determine if they fall in certain categories or have certain issues, then suggests practical steps for improvement, constructive conversation and renewed relationships. Perhaps most important, biblical wisdom and encouraging real-life examples are given for every step of the journey. Plenty of books speak to a daughter's need for love, acceptance and approval from her mother. But they stop there. Dr. Mintle helps readers understand they can find that unconditional love and sense of self-worth in only one place: a relationship with their heavenly Father. She also serves as your personal guide for making peace with the most important woman in your life. "It is my hope to guide you into being who you were created to be while, at the same time, finding connection with your mom." Let your personal journey to peace begin here. Book jacket.
As one of three sisters, I am the oldest. I also have a teenage daughter myself. This book has helped be immensely in understanding the complicities of the mother & daughter relationship. I read the book, and then renewed it to go through it again. I now am purchasing a copy to have on hand as an invaluable reference tool! I highly reccomend Dr. Mintle's book for anyone seeking a better understanding of this very important relationship. It was a true eye opener for me!!
Thought-provoking, life-changing, excellent!
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 19 years ago
This book will change the way you look at your mother no matter what your particular circumstance. Dr. Mintle has an excellent way of addressing the intimate bond between mother and daughter, whether you only have the occastional miscommunication and argument, whether you come from a situation where your mother was abusive, and everything in between. It is different from other books in that its main focus is what YOU can do with the situation, how YOU can be proactive in improving your relationship with your mother, and how powerful forgiveness can be. It is also written with a Christian perspective, and I found that as I read the book, I could apply the principles not just to my relationship with my mother, but also to other relationships in my life. You will not be disappointed with this book!
This book made a difference !
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 21 years ago
Love the cover and then I read the statement, "I love my mother but..." I just said those words to a friend. My mom is great but we have our "issues". This book really helped me gain perspective and work through the problem-spots. The advice is very practical and easy to apply. Dr. Linda has obviously made the journey with her own mom because she is so in tune with the mother-daughter relationship. I highly recommened this book to anyone who wants to improve her relationship with her mom.
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